Struggling to use your Power of Attorney? We did too.

Community-curated, institution-specific guides designed to save you time and get your POA accepted so you can focus on caring for your loved one.

How We Help

Three steps. No Runaround.

1. Select Your Institution

Pick from an ever-growing list of banks, utilities, insurers, healthcare providers, and government agencies. If they touch your loved one's life, we've mapped their POA requirements.

Don't see your institution? Let us know and we'll research the guide for you - for free!

2. Download Your Guide

Get the institution-specific forms, notarization rules, submission addresses, insider tips, and processing timelines.

Instantly download your guide. Access from your phone at the bank, in the hospital, wherever you need it.

3. Submit It Right the First Time

Follow the checklist. Use the right forms. Call the right department. Track the submission in your dashboard.

Avoid common mistakes and hours of frustration.

Financial Guides

Banks, brokerages, credit cards

Government Guides

VA, Medicare, Social Security

Insurance Guides

Health, life, long-term care

Utility Guides

Electric, gas, phone, internet

What's In a POAHelp Guide?

Each guide is institution-specific and updated by fellow caregivers (like you) as they get used. Together, we can make this process suck less.

✓ Submission Process

Where to mail it (exact address). Who to call (exact department and phone number). What to say when you call. How long processing takes.

✓ Institution-Specific Forms

The exact form they'll accept (with form numbers and download links). Not "contact them for forms." The actual forms.

✓ Notarization Requirements

How many witnesses. What kind of notary seal. Timing requirements. State-specific rules that make or break acceptance.

✓ Common Rejection Reasons

Learn from previous caregiver mistakes. What makes them reject POAs and how to avoid those mistakes. What to do if yours gets rejected anyway.

✓ Insider Tips

The stuff nobody tells you. Like: call Wells Fargo Estate Services at 8am Pacific (lowest wait time). Or how Medicare processes POAs faster if you include the beneficiary's claim number in your cover letter.

✓ Follow-Up Scripts

Exact language to use when calling to check status. How to escalate when it's been "lost in processing." When to threaten regulatory complaints (yes, we cover that).

Why not rely on Google or ChatGPT?

Been there. Tried that.

Cost: Free (but it will cost you 40+ hours)

What you get:

  • Generic state POA laws

  • Outdated forum threads

  • Conflicting advice from 2019

  • No institution-specific requirements

  • Still get rejected

Reality check:You'll find the PA state POA statute. You won't find Wells Fargo's internal form WF-120-REV or that Medicare needs it mailed to a different address than the one on their website.

Get our Free "Help Me Out Here" POA Guide

If you've read this far and are still unsure of whether we can help, check out our comprehensive guide we wish we had when we were given power of attorney?